Here’s the deal: I am tired of stress, I am tired of chaos, I am tired of letting myself go and letting myself down. Over the years, I have tried to make so many changes. I have made lists and schedules and programmes and, after a week, sometimes less, I am back to square one, shaking my head at yet another failed attempt at self-improvement.
Well, this time I am trying something different. I have decided to give myself 40 days to make 10 resolutions and stick to them – and, to ensure I do, I have decided to make it public.
That’s right, the resolutions, the motivations, the daily reports and insights – and the photo evidence!
I will be enlisting the help and support of qualified, experienced sisters to mentor me – sisters with strong iman, life coaches, health and fitness experts, experts on parenting, wise women – to guide me and keep me motivated. I will be reading and sharing wisdom from Islamic teachings and others, from the Internet and SISTERS Magazine. But I am also counting on the support of you, the readers.
But hey, how about we do this together? If you are anything like me, you know what you want to change but may sometimes lack the motivation or stick-with-itness to make your resolutions truly lasting.
So how about we do this: I’ll show you mine and you show us yours. I’ll share my 10 habits and you can choose 10 of your own. Then we’ll meet here, every day for 40 days to encourage and to remind each other, to commiserate over our little failures and celebrate our successes.
I really want to do this and would appreciate your companionship on this journey of transformation, due to start on Friday the 1st of April bi’idhnillah. In my next post, I will share my 10 resolutions with you. Hopefully, you will have decided on 10 of your own and will be willing to share them 
“Truly, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (Quran 13:11)
I’m ready for a change, a real, lasting one this time. With the aid of Allah ta’ala and the support of our sisters, let’s strive for 40Days to transform our lives, 10 habits at a time.
Who’s in?
Wasalaam
Na’ima B. Robert